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COMMUNITY GUIDELINES

OnlyMens only works if you feel safe here. These rules apply to everyone and form part of the Terms of Service.

Last updated: [effective date]

1. Be real

Use your own photos and state your age and identity truthfully. Using someone else's photos, celebrity images or a synthetic identity is prohibited. Verification exists to show that the person in the profile is really you.

2. Consent comes first

The first message is sent by a woman. Consent continues after that: if the other person wants to end the conversation, do not push. Persistent messaging, following and pestering are violations.

3. Be respectful

Insults, degradation and threats are prohibited, as is hate speech based on race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual orientation, disability or illness. Block anyone you do not get along with, and report them if needed.

4. Sexual content

Nudity and explicit content are not allowed in profiles or opening messages. Sending unsolicited sexual content is a severe violation and can lead to immediate account closure. Sharing someone else's intimate images without consent is prohibited.

5. Minors

The platform is for people aged 18 and over. Accounts found to belong to minors are closed. Any content relating to child exploitation is removed immediately, the account is closed permanently and the authorities are notified.

6. Commercial use, spam and fraud

Advertising, job offers, donation or investment requests, crypto and gambling referrals, driving traffic to other sites, and asking for money or gift cards are prohibited. Report romance-scam attempts; we close those accounts.

7. Illegal content and behaviour

Drugs, weapons, human trafficking, sex trafficking, forged documents and similar illegal content or offers are prohibited. Sharing someone's personal information without consent (doxxing) is prohibited.

8. Account abuse

Creating multiple accounts, replacing a closed account, scraping data with automated tools and reverse engineering the app are prohibited.

9. Reporting and enforcement

Block and report are available on every profile and in every chat. Reports enter a moderation queue and are reviewed by a human. Depending on the outcome we apply:

  • A warning and removal of the content.
  • Temporary restriction of features.
  • Suspension of the account.
  • Permanent closure and, where required, notification of the authorities.

10. Appeals

If you believe a decision was wrong, write to [support email]. We will review it again and tell you the outcome within [appeal response time].