WOMEN CHOOSE · MEN WAIT

YOU
CHOOSE.

Women discover and make the first move. Men build a profile, verify with a selfie, and wait. Women's profiles are never listed in discovery; a man only sees her once she writes to him.

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18+
Verified profiles
Block and report, moderation around the clock

VERIFIEDNOBODY WRITES UNTIL YOU DO

OnlyMens Discover screen: a grid of verified men's profiles with filters above it.

01MEN BUILD A PROFILEPhotos, a few questions, selfie verification. Then they wait; they swipe on no one.
02WOMEN DISCOVERFilters, distance, verified badge. She browses as long as she likes; her profile is never listed and leaves no trace.
03WOMEN MAKE THE FIRST MOVEShe starts the conversation. Only then can he see her profile and reply.

INSIDE THE APP

THIS IS WHAT YOU GET

Discover, profiles, verification — the real screens, in your language, exactly as they look after you install.

SHE OPENS HIS PROFILE
HE WAITS
SELFIE VERIFICATION

SAFETY

SAFETY FIRST, CONVERSATION SECOND.

Safety is not a setting here, it is the product. Who can see whom is decided on the server, never in the app.

Selfie verification
Men complete a selfie and pose challenge before they can be listed in discovery; women complete the same step before sending a first message. Anything that does not match goes to a human review queue.
Block and report
Blocking and reporting are one tap away on every profile and inside every chat. Someone you block can no longer see you or write to you.
Moderation
Photos pass an automated check before they go live and reports land in a moderation queue. Content that breaks the rules is removed and accounts are suspended or closed.
Delete your account any time
In the app: Settings → Delete account. The request covers your account, profile and photos. If you cannot get into the app, you can send the request from the web.

WOMEN'S PROFILES ARE NEVER LISTED TO MEN.

Men have no discovery screen, no search and no suggestions. A man sees only the woman who wrote to him, and only inside that conversation. This is enforced in the API's visibility layer, not in the client.

Men see profile views as a number only: no identity, no photo, and it is never sold in any plan.

PLANS

PLUS AND PREMIUM.

The basics are free. Paid plans speed things up; they never change safety or the visibility rule.

MENPREMIUM

Reply to messages
Priority ranking
Read receipts
Extra photos
Boost

WOMENPLUS

Advanced filters
Incognito mode
Undo

Purchases happen inside the app only (App Store and Google Play). Prices and terms are shown at checkout; subscriptions are managed and cancelled from your store account.

There are no purchases on the website.

FAQ

SHORT ANSWERS.

How does OnlyMens work?

Men create a profile, verify and wait. Women browse men in discovery, filter, and start the conversation. The first message always comes from a woman.

Can men see women's profiles?

No. Men have no discovery, search or suggestion list. A man only sees the woman who wrote to him, inside that conversation.

Is verification required?

Men must complete selfie verification to be listed in discovery. Women complete the same step before sending a first message. Verification images are never shown on your profile.

Is it free?

Creating a profile, discovering and starting a conversation are free. A man needs Premium to reply to a message; Plus gives women advanced filters, incognito mode and undo.

How do I delete my account?

In the app, go to Settings → Delete account. If you cannot get into the app, the account deletion page shows you how to email us the request.

All questions and answers

MAKE THE FIRST MOVE.

Download the app and build your profile. You must be 18 or older.